I once directed about 20 different
people in a Christian volunteer organization. I didn´t have any experience in leading an
organization and really had no idea what to do. So I enrolled in
a leadership training course, and was I ever glad that I did.
The class only lasted for two days with
not more than a couple of hours each day. But I learned a variety of techniques on how to
dealwith different kinds of people, how to gain respect and trust
from the people I was leading, and how to balance assertiveness withflexibility.
One of the first things we were taught
in the leadership training course was to never ask someone to do something that we wouldn´t
doourself. One of the aspects of the ministry I headed up was to do
home visits. So when I volunteered to do the first one myself Iimmediately noticed the relief in the other members.
Another thing we were taught was, that
the people we were leading were expecting us to be confident and know what to do in
differentsituations. This proved to be difficult for me, since, to be
honest, none of us really knew what we were doing. I circumvented this issueby calling on the larger council at our church in such situations, and quickly learned the ins
and outs.
In the leadership training course we
also learned to listen to everybody, whether it was a business or something else, and make
suretheir voice was heard and respected. It also stressed the
necessity of making sure that everybody had something to do, especially involunteer organizations, so that everybody felt appreciated.
Because of what I learned in the
leadership training course, I made it a point to thank everyone personally at the end of each
meeting,to call attention to the hard work of various volunteers, and
to send letters of appreciation to everyone in our conference. I soondiscovered that I had earned a tremendous amount of loyalty from the members of the ministry.
Once when our priest came into theconference room where we were
holding our meeting and asked if we could do something for Christmas, every head in the room turned to
me.That was very gratifying.
I enjoyed heading up that ministry very
much and still keep in contact with all of the members. I don't think I would have been nearly
aseffective a leader, however, if it had not been for the leadership
training course I attended and the valuable tools I learned along theway.